Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Dream Into Action: A Retreat to Bring your Dreams to Life

Just stopping by with a big announcement!

Today is the presale for my upcoming retreat, Dream Into Action.

It's something I've been dreaming of for the last seven years, so stop on by my new blog to find out more, or to the Dream Into Action site to register.

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Welcoming Spirit Has Moved

Oh friends - big news! My brand new coaching website is up, and this blog has moved over to it's new home.

You can find both of my new sites here:

Paula Jenkins Online: my new life coaching website: http://paulajenkinsonline.com/

Welcoming Spirit: at its new blog location: http://welcoming-spirit.com/

I sure hope you'll stop by for a visit!
Much love -

Thursday, May 21, 2015

How To Plan a Retreat: The Marketing

Marketing for a retreat is one of the key pieces that can also take a lot of time. If you've been following along on my "How to Plan a Retreat" series, you'll note that most of my posts have to do with the retreat itself. Marketing a retreat is an entirely different beast, and it's something I've had a bit of experience with, having worked in marketing for over fifteen years.

I was excited to get an email from Deidre, who is planning a retreat in Texas, and she was curious about marketing her event. Here is her email (used with her blessing):

First thank you for all the retreat information I found on your site.  My question is:  do you have a time-line as far as once you have your date, place, etc, how soon prior to the date of the retreat do you start promoting it?  And how far from the retreat date do you ask for final payments?  Just what is the marketing or promotional time-line for a retreat and what does that entail?
Thank you so much and Blessings!

Deidre also let me know her price point ($150 for the weekend, a great deal!), and that she is targeting a group of women that she already knows from Church. She's open to having other women attend. And her tag line (I LOVE THIS!) is: Relax your Body, Renew your Mind, Rejuvenate your Spirit

And here are my thoughts:
With this response, I'm assuming that you may not fill the spots you have with just your immediate group of Church friends, and that you want to invite others if the spots are not full. If that's not true, you can simplify what I've said below. I'm also suggesting a tiered approach in your pricing: an early bird and regular price. This is intended to drive interest amongst your core group; and marketing is not always straight forward; a lower price may encourage people to commit sooner to you. If you go with a tiered rate, and are not looking to make a profit, there's always the opportunity to donate the money to a charity, buy additional supplies, or keep the funds for a scholarship for next year. I would use that as a selling point if you're running with it - something like "all proceeds will be used to ..." that way no one questions why someone paid more or less.

Around your retreat, though, I would start talking/ marketing about it five-six months out, and start with the people you know might be interested and are in your Church or group. If you can, consider offering an early bird rate for either a set number of people or until a certain date. Maybe $150 is the "early bird" rate (or just call it that to drive interest), but let them know you need their commitment and down payment (or full payment) by a set date. If you plan to charge a little more for "regular" price, state that too (let them know what it is), and give the initial group your cut off date to get the discount price. I'd limit the window of opportunity to 6-8 weeks for the group you already know and work with (and they can still register later, but let them know you're opening it up to the public).

Even though you know the folks, I'd still suggest a contract that outlines what they get, when the last payment is due, your policy around cancellations, and any kind of "hold harmless" or legal language. (they won't sue you if they get hurt, there's no refunds if they can't attend last minute, have to leave early  - that kind of thing). I'd recommend covering yourself just in the event something unexpected happens.

If the core group of people that are part of your group don't fill the spots in that set amount of time I'd start advertising for other women. Reach out to other churches and see if you can get in their bulletin. Create a free page about the retreat on Facebook and invite all of your friends. Maybe offer a give away / raffle in exchange for people sharing the info. Give yourself plenty of time to get the spots filled, and in turn, you can also create some buzz around the event (that might build into next year's event). Advertise at a slightly higher rate for "regular price."

As for final payments, I'd check with the place that you are running the retreat. Mine requires full payment (and locks everything in) by 45 days out from the event date. So, for my upcoming November retreat, I will offer payment plans, but everything needs to be paid in full by that date. And, if I still have spots open past the 45 day window, I can still add to my numbers but I will require that those folks pay up front. If someone hasn't paid in full, I will have to make it clear that they can't attend if they are not in good standing. My thinking here is that I can't financially cover individuals (should it turn our they are unable to pay), even if they have the best intentions.

Timelines around specific marketing are harder to speak to, not knowing your budget or your own social media reach or expertise. You may want to check out Pat Flynn's site for some tips on marketing - while you are not holding a virtual conference, this interview offers some great ideas around how to promote an event: http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/how-to-put-on-a-virtual-conference/

Do you have any questions around a retreat you're hosting that you'd like for me to answer? Drop me a note at welcomingspirit at gmail dot com. I'd love to hear from you.

Monday, May 18, 2015

Four Steps to Finding Balance in Your Life

In working with clients, and at retreats, "Life Balance" often comes up as a topic that people have trouble with. It's true that people seem to be more crunched for time, and have more that they want to do than ever before. I find that it's easier to keep the "walls are closing in around me" feeling at bay if you stop and mindfully work through these basic steps when you're feeling out of balance.

1. Identify What You Really Mean by Balance
When you're craving balance, it's good to start out with stopping to really identify what "balance" means to you.When clients tell me that they wish they had "more balance," they usually come to identify that they want to make time for something that is currently lacking in their life. They are often neglecting something that brings them peace or joy, or have been working longer than usual hours.

To get to the heart of what balance means to you, start with these questions:
What does balance mean to me?
Is it juggling everything that's been assigned to me, along with all of the things I think I "should" be doing?
Does it mean making more time for myself or family and friends?
Is there something specific I'm yearning for in my life that is missing?
What am I really saying when I say that I'm wishing I had more balance in my life?

2. Make a List of What You're Trying to Balance
A pragmatic way to start wading through what balance means to you is to make a big list. Take a few minutes and do a brain dump of everything you have on your to do list (mental or otherwise). Add all the things and people that need your attention. Include obligations, things you need to do to pay bills, time for yourself, and all the things you love doing. 

3. Pick  What to Say No to
As you spend time with the list, you may notice that there are some things that you'd like to stop doing. Or, if there's something new you want to add to the list, you may need to say "no" to something you're already doing to make space for for it. 

Take a good hard look at your list. What can you cross off? Are there some things that aren't active projects, but are just sitting there, taking up space? Be as intentional and honest with yourself as possible about reviewing your list, and let go of what you can. 

In some situations, you may also need to give yourself permission to cross things off of your list. Saying no to things is hard; if (like me) you've been a people pleaser, or a Type A personality, this may feel very foreign to you. Acknowledge that it's hard, but listen to your gut and your inner voice. If something or someone no longer serves you, or makes you feel "less than" who are, let it go.

4. Keep Your Priorities
Your priorities will likely be easy to spot. Go for the gut check here. Sometimes it just takes really tuning in to what you want (instead of listening to what the rest of the world wants, or what you think you "should" want). Saying "yes" to some of the things you want, that you love, that light you up, may also feel like foreign terrain to some people. Maybe it's hard for you to prioritize yourself. That is OK as well. Be gentle with yourself as you work on this list. 

Another great way to measure if something should be kept on your list, or even prioritized? If something or someone makes your heart soar, fills you with light, makes you feel more like you, then that is something or someone to hold on to. As with so many things in life, listen here to see if you are making a decision to keep something out of love? or are you letting fear have a hand in the decision? If it's love, then you can feel really good about deciding to keep that as a priority.

Once you have your list of priorities, and have identified what to say no to, it's time to act. By mindfully acting on what you want to keep, and what you want to let go of, you'll have a feeling of great control, and more joy and satisfaction in the way you spend your time.

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Multi-Passionate Must Haves Bundle is Now Live

I've been working super hard on a "top secret" project over the last few weeks - revising and updating my "Finding Balance: Defining and Defending Harmony in Your Life" ecourse to be included in the Multi-passionate Must Haves bundle that goes live today.

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Even if you already went through the original Finding Balance e-course, it's worth checking it out again. This latest version has a newly added podcast for each exercise, a brand new ending, and it's now a six week E-course. What's more is that it's specially targeted for the "Multi-passionate" person.

What's a Multi-passionate?
Good question! If you find that you're constantly coming up with new creative ideas, that you have more ideas than you do time, or that you can't stand to be tied to just one career or course, well you may be a multi-passionate. Also known as "Renaissance Souls" or "Scanners," this type of person is hard wired to be interested, (passionate, even) in a multitude of things or pursuits. We find it exciting to learn about new things, to dabble in a bunch of different, possibly un-connected fields, delighting in figuring the thing out, and then moving on to the next thing that catches our interest. Society doesn't always understand a multi-passionate because we can seem a bit flighty (finishing stuff isn't our strong suit because we are passionate about learning, and it's the learning and absorbing of information that light us up - "finishing" isn't even the point), or like we can't stick to just one thing (because we love it all!).

If that description resonates with you, I welcome you in to the Multi-passionate world. I strongly self-identify as a multipassionate myself.

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Monday, May 11, 2015

Finding Balance: Defining and Defending Harmony in Your Life

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Thursday, April 23, 2015

Five Minute Friday: Hide

For many years, I hid the true me - somewhere amongst the fear of being really seen, or the belief that my voice mattered, I hunkered down and just played small. This blog here kind of rattled along during those years, my voice to weak and unsure to really make any sort of splash. My message not quite polished or directed.

The last nearly five months have been about shattering through that ceiling. My phrase for the year has been "no toggle," which simply means living authentically. I'm the same person at work as I am at home as I am leading retreats. I don't shy from who that person is, and it frees me up to JUST BE.

The difference has been profound. I laugh more. I admit when I'm happy or scared or not feeling great. I speak my mind with my boss and the other "senior" folks at work. It's not that I don't care, it's more that I do care. I care about mattering, about being seen and heard, and that all started when I dropped worrying about what people would think if they knew who I "really" was.

When I stopped hiding, the most interesting thing happened. When I started being authentic, standing up for myself, being all in, well that's when people started listening more. They seek me out for advice, ask my opinion, want to spend more time, instead of less. It is the opposite of what I feared, of why I hid. And I really could not be happier.